Parents are the Key to Kids Retaining Their Faith

One of the best ways for parents to pass their faith on to their children is to practice what they preach. Parents play the most decisive role in determining whether children retain faith in God as adults, according to new research by the Institute for Family Studies.

Children whose parents attend church weekly, for example, are more than twice as likely to attend church themselves as adults (26 percent), compared to those raised in homes where their parents don’t routinely go to services (12 percent). Additionally, nearly half of parents who prayed daily raised children who carried a daily prayer habit into adulthood, compared to less than one-third of parents who did not maintain a regular prayer routine. The study also found adult religious commitment was higher when both parents attended church with their children (41 percent vs. 29 percent).

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Although the study noted that younger people are more likely than previous generations to report no religious affiliation, it pointed to data showing active church involvement is a significant predictor of future faith. Teenagers who participated in youth groups, attended church camps and engaged in other faith-related events were twice as likely (22 percent vs. 9 percent) to attend weekly church services in their mid- to late 20s.

Among other key findings:

• Religious practice in childhood is highly predictive of religious practice in adulthood.
• Higher parent–child relationship quality in childhood is associated with stronger retention of religious belief and practice in adulthood.
• Higher parental marital quality is associated with greater faith transmission.
• Congregational involvement on the part of both parents and adolescents is linked to higher levels of faith commitment when children reach adulthood.

Researchers determined that churches should dedicate time and resources to equipping parents to lead spiritual formation at home.

“Studies demonstrate that parental modeling, shared faith practices and the quality of parent–child relationships are among the strongest predictors of adult religiosity,” the report concluded. “When faith is embedded in everyday routines through conversation, ritual and visible commitment, children are more likely to internalize it as part of their enduring identity. Taken together, this body of evidence underscores the need for analysis of how family processes operate in practice and which specific parental behaviors most effectively foster durable Christian commitment.”

–Alan Goforth

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